Monday, January 20, 2014

Missing Him


Emily had the perfect photo and words for our family today.
She posted this on her instagram feed:

"Surviving three months with my world tilted seems like a pretty big accomplishment."






 We are amazed that time keeps marching on and we tag along with it.  We find more good days in our weeks than hard ones.  We are forever changed and are learning how to live in this new place. 
Our world has been rather tilted and finding our bearings again is a process.


 It's time to start thinking about a headstone.  We know we want something unique for Davis.


 We are starting to think of options.  
We find peace in this sweet place on the hill in Mendon.


 But the road ahead is long and filled with uncertainty.  
We are blessed with so many around us that give us hope, love and courage. 


Sunday, January 12, 2014

Birthday Time!

T W O and F O U R
It's time for a birthday party!
 But first things first!  The kids had some things to show us.
Miss Molly rides her two wheeler all by herself!

Emily sat by the birthday girl.  The kids picked Pizza!




 The two grandpas had their try at dropping the bean in the jar. 
 Owen wasn't quite sure why we were putting beans {in} our noses...but what the hay?!


 Pin the bow on Minnie's ear

 And then it was time for the cake!
 Owen takes note in Molly's blowing technique and then gives it a try!


 We sure love this little family.  They bring us all so much joy!

 Owen loved sticking his finger in the frosting again and again, especially when no one minded.



 Aunt Camber has the best time with the kids




 Grandpa and Grandma Christensen gave the kids stick horses 
and they had a blast racing around the house.

What a party! We're still smiling about it!

Happy Birthday Molly and Owen!
We LOVE you so very much!



Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Happy New Year

Happy New Year!  Last year Davis was working the Rose Bowl Parade in Pasadena.  It  is something we'd love to see one day.  We are grateful for the memories and times we have shared with our sweet boy.  The countless connections to where he traveled, what he loved, learned and what he would hope for us is a gift we all treasure.  Looking at a brand new year is a pretty exciting thing to do.  So much promise and hope.

Molly turned 4 today!  Sounds like she had a perfect day with her family.  We get to celebrate her birthday and Owens birthday next Saturday.  Can hardly wait!


We had a quiet new years eve with Janell.  She extended her stay this week due to a bout with the flu.  We have loved having her here with us.
 (Em had a fun little photo shoot with Janell and Ziggy!)


To each of you who visit our blog, thanks for popping in now and then.  
May 2014 be filled with many warm memories.

I say this yesterday on Pinterest:

Break a bad habit
Learn a new skill
Do a good deed
Visit a new place
Read a difficult book
Write something important
Try a new food
Do something for someone who can not thank you
Take an important risk

Sunday, December 29, 2013

Our L O N G Christmas Post

All gathered in for a wonderful Christmas holiday.  It was perfect amid the illness, late nights, elbows, hugs, games, too much food, laughter and tears.  We treasure these rare times that we can all be together.  A gift for each of us to tide us over until we meet again. 
 Oh the joys of taking the family photo!  And the uncertainty of a timer. 
Who needs perfection anyway?!


A few highlights of our Christmas gathering:

A small sampling of the dozens of beautiful spoons Mark hand carved this year.  He chose someone to carve one for and spent the time thinking of that person.  One of the sweetest gifts to give.  We loved the logo he came up with. 



Little girls in P I N K can't get enough of them!


 

Spent a night in Salt Lake




Oh Christmas Tree...full of memories




A Birthday to Celebrate!






 We love you, Lindsey!
Ice Cream for the kiddos and German Chocolate Trifle for the adults.
Wishing you a year of joy!


New Tradition!
Hot Cocoa and Donuts in Mendon


Davis loved his donuts.  He thought it would be cool to own a bakery one day. 
Grandma Doris always spoiled him and us with a box full of donuts nearly every time they came over for a visit.  Davis was in heaven.  And now that he is in heaven and we feel the need to include him and all the wonderful memories we have shared with him - this new tradition was born.  We lit luminaries and huddled together stay warm, sipping on hot cocoa and remembering our boy.

Snow angels, praying mantis and a beautiful sunset.  Grandpa was the lucky one to drink from Davis' mug.  Each year Mark will carefully choose someone to use it.












Christmas Eve Dinner, Clam Chowder. 




Papa read from the bible, the Christmas Story.  The children opened new PJ's and gifts from Papa and Nana.  Lindsey and Molly made the cutest capes for the kids! They set out cookies and milk for Santa along with carrots for the reindeer and scooted off to bed.  



This year we had a white elephant game to exchange gifts among the siblings.  We gave each of the girls a locket with a photo of Davis inside and a curly lock.  And the girls surprised mom with one as well!



Mark made a beautiful spoon for each of them (Janell got a pie server). We gave them each an art journal kit and a book on grief.  We copied some drawings from his sketchbook and included photos and journal prompts.  We hear that writing down feelings is a helpful way to heal.

We did our best to fill each day with memories. 
 Having everyone together under one roof is such a treat. 




Dinner at the Shire

Danielle is brimming over with creative dinner party ideas!  Several years ago, she and Brady hosted an awesome  Mystery Murder Dinner Party were we were all given pirate characters to play through the evening.

This year we thoroughly enjoyed her Hobbit Dinner.  We had a few feeling a little under the weather so the trip to the movie following dinner was postponed, but what a fun night we enjoyed together!

The table was set and Brady drew name place cards for everyone.  (The poor guy had pnemonia)


 The menu inclluded Prime Rib,  Green Salad, Roasted Root Vegetables, Fresh Bread
and a choice of Apple Crisp or Apple Cake with Caramel Sauce for dessert.

 Everyone had a great time!
Cheers to Davis to who was a perfect Frodo years ago for Halloween!





If you made it to the end, you're a trooper!
Happy New Year!!
Here's to 2014 and table always surrounded with dear friends,
family, great food and wonderful conversation !
xo